My cousin received an "Honorable Discharge" while in the Marine Corp. for refusing the vax...so yeah it's a real thing. I also know a game warden in Washington that was fired for refusing the Fauci Outchy.1) US Government at all-time highs? by what measure.
2) Government shutdowns were under Trump I
3) Federal employees didn't lose their jobs for vaccines. And if a few dozen did, courts gave them back to them. Regarding private companies, they get to make their own rules on that matter. I don't like the fact that they got let go, but every story is different and I can see cases where it might be necessary - caregiver for elderly for example.
4) The military requires a lot of vaccines before you can join. Are you saying your buddy got discharged for refusing the COVID? Hard to believe. Regardless, the courts ordered that rescinded and he could rejoin.
5) Most colleges (hate to say 'All' without being 100% sure) follow the same rules on the biological sex competitors as those of international competition (Olympic committee). Take it up with the right organization. Maybe your friend was just slow?