Forkyfinder
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Is there no world left where poor choices have consequences?I think a lot of the disagreement between Buzz and Alpine and their respective viewpoints held by many others ultimately comes back to basic psychology. Its well known that negative experiences hold much greater weight in people’s minds and memory than ultimately more frequent positive ones.
So Alpine may cling to the highly distasteful notion of poor decision making and buying trucks, vacations, being a deadbeat, etc. And this may very well be the minority situation. It does catch headlines and some politicians’ mouths (at least on conservative sites) versus hearing about the hard working family man cut down by illness or accident. That isn’t as flashy overall.
Ultimately I am with Buzz in that society will not tolerate multitudes of homeless, elderly. Younger ones in the throes of drug abuse and poor mental health is bad enough but part of me does default to they made their bed... But sober, sound minded old folks being out on the street seems too harsh.
If i cash out my 401k and buy some boats, vacations, guns, and other frivelous things in my 50s - do you promise to take care of me in my 60s and the rest of my life?