Jabber, When you initially said that I know alot of people were taken back. It's tough to lose someone unexpectedly but to me would be harder to know it's coming very shortly.
I would like to thank everyone for all of your thoughts and prayers. They do help. She has been fighting both MS and cancer for the last 14 or so years and she is finally free of the pain.
It brings tears to my eyes to think of what you are going through and I have no words or wisdom for you as I have no idea what I would do if I lost my wife as she is also my best friend, companion and confidant.