BackofBeyond
Well-known member
Spot on. I TAKE them hunting if they will go. I TAKE them shooting to shoot whatever they want. I love to show them my old guns. It is easier to get them to pick up an 1894 Marlin than a Sig M400 for the first time. Or better yet, a Winchester 1885 in .22 of course. But the point is, you RECRUIT THEM. A little at a time. And even if they don't come completely over to my side, at the very least they had a good experience and the gun didn't jump up and kill them spontaneously, and it didn't turn themselves into homicidal maniacs. So, maybe they only go from vehemently anti-gun to just sorta anti-gun. I'll take that for now. Most of them are not that vehement, and so more often they become ambivalent or better. If you can't get one of them to go but you get a couple of their friends, you still make a favorable impression. It doesn't happen overnight. It happens as you make opportunity for it to happen.
Anyway, the only way the war can be won is to recruit the "enemy". You cannot overwhelm the "enemy" and win. You will just fight another day. And, to start, I'll quit calling them the "enemy" 'cuz they ain't.
Exactly what I try to do. I have a cousin that is one of the "radical left" boogeyman that we're all so scared of. Her and I had a heated conversation about guns once, which got us no where. The next time she came for a visit I tried a different tact - I asked her to go shooting with me, in hopes that she would understand that a firearm is a mechanical device; plain and simple; no more inherently dangerous than a kitchen knife, a vehicle, a beer can, or whatever. I also (calmly this time) shared my opinion that banning guns doesn't fix the problem - gun violence is just a symptom. The diseases - which I believe are institutionalized poverty, and a mental health care crisis - are what we really need to be fixing. Why treat just a symptom, when you can address the root cause?
She ended up going shooting with me. Started her the same way my dad did, Cooper's Rules and a .22 - she declined to move up to anything bigger than that, but did admit to having fun by the end. Did I change her mind? Not really, but she moved a little closer to understanding my side of the street, and I hers.
There's no 100% win in this debate, both sides are going to have to give as much as they get, and it starts over a cup of coffee; calm, rational debate; and understanding.