SAJ-99
Well-known member
The job is the key. I am a big advocate for mobility, but not if you are leaving a well-established job. But that seems like a paradox - having a well-established job but can't afford to buy a house. Should we define "well-established". If you have a well-established job that pays peanuts, then maybe you might want to take a risk and move? Everyone has a case specific to them, and they should make decisions based on their circumstances. But when I look back, a lot of the more successful people I know that took a chance and moved are in a better spot. I think lot of this goes back to making decisions with future self in mind, particularly when you choose a path out of high school. A lot of jobs are pretty similar across the country. Some jobs lock you in by the nature of the subject (ie, grizzly bear biologist) and some by the structure of the job (needing/having an established client base). Sometimes you only get one opportunity at making that choice.leave your well established job... there's a reason people oft aren't moving.