Pucky Freak
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As a young single person, just picked a spot on the map (Eastern MT/Western ND), with no forethought. Decent paying jobs were clustered in a few narrow industries, and didn't fit what I wanted to do. I knew plenty of people who scraped by doing what they could in order to live in nowhereville. Wasn't for me and I left - no regrets. I can make x2-x3 as much in IA doing the same thing, and comfortably return to the West to visit.
Now that I have a family it would be a different process if we were to relocate. I don't think you can get a good feel for a place by visiting it for a long weekend, especially in the summer. Not even sure I would bother with that, but just me. I would focus on researching jobs, housing, kiddos' education, and culture (transplant culture vs. steeped locals where you are the permanent outsider). The outdoors are on your doorstep just about anywhere, so access to recreation would not be as high on my list. There are a few exceptions though, such as 5 points in Denver...complete s---, speak from experience
Now that I have a family it would be a different process if we were to relocate. I don't think you can get a good feel for a place by visiting it for a long weekend, especially in the summer. Not even sure I would bother with that, but just me. I would focus on researching jobs, housing, kiddos' education, and culture (transplant culture vs. steeped locals where you are the permanent outsider). The outdoors are on your doorstep just about anywhere, so access to recreation would not be as high on my list. There are a few exceptions though, such as 5 points in Denver...complete s---, speak from experience