VikingsGuy
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I was just reacting to this . . . "At 43 with two preteens saving 30k before I’m 50 is a tall task". Spending $30k now and paying off $35-ish over seven years and Saving $35-ish over 7 years presents the same "tall task" -- one choice has more risk and the other has the benefit of happening now.Pretty sure I never said that.
But in general, I recommend resetting priorities/expectations if any desired fun expenditure feels like a "tall task". Most of my best memories and moments have come at minimal cost - the big dollar adventure is overrated and too many folks get over their skis reaching after FOMO desires. And when I have done a few big ticket trips they were always well within my means at the time and required no other "sacrifices" or "strectches" by the family budget.
Family, security, retirement, education, etc always come first when $$ at stake. Only unplanned windfalls go to fancy things. It's so easy to have great times and great memories on a budget, so no real need to risk the bank for stuff others are doing on the internet.