Hunting Wife
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@bobbydean since you asked for a response...you asked if I thought you were a racist. The honest answer is, I don’t know. I don’t know you. I would have to make an awful lot of assumptions about you to come to that conclusion. And I don’t generally find labeling to be useful or helpful in describing the totality of a person.
But I do think too many people lack empathy and have a very hard time comprehending that how each of us experiences life is drastically different. Too many people make excuses or find reasons to dismiss or diminish what others experience.
I’ve seen lots of people claim all this racism stuff is overblown and doesn’t happen, citing lack of concrete “proof”. When someone posts “proof”, or shares their experience, that person’s character and motives are then attacked. I don’t understand why some people are so strongly against even acknowledging this kind of stuff is happening. Given my experiences in this world, I know it does. Things have happened to me. It does not seem far-fetched to me that it happened to him. I have no reason to doubt this particular man. I don’t see what he has to gain by lying. I see lots of people making assumptions about his motives, with no evidence to support those assumptions.
Again, for me it all boils down to two things....Is it right for a human to be treated that way? How would I feel if it was me?
No ifs, ands or buts. Golden rule and all that, which I think most people today have forgotten. I don’t really see the need for much more analysis beyond that. If we can do better, we should.
But I do think too many people lack empathy and have a very hard time comprehending that how each of us experiences life is drastically different. Too many people make excuses or find reasons to dismiss or diminish what others experience.
I’ve seen lots of people claim all this racism stuff is overblown and doesn’t happen, citing lack of concrete “proof”. When someone posts “proof”, or shares their experience, that person’s character and motives are then attacked. I don’t understand why some people are so strongly against even acknowledging this kind of stuff is happening. Given my experiences in this world, I know it does. Things have happened to me. It does not seem far-fetched to me that it happened to him. I have no reason to doubt this particular man. I don’t see what he has to gain by lying. I see lots of people making assumptions about his motives, with no evidence to support those assumptions.
Again, for me it all boils down to two things....Is it right for a human to be treated that way? How would I feel if it was me?
No ifs, ands or buts. Golden rule and all that, which I think most people today have forgotten. I don’t really see the need for much more analysis beyond that. If we can do better, we should.