Wildabeest
Well-known member
Given the behavior scolding we just received, I wanted to revisit this thread with a serious comment vs. my usual smartassness.
I’ve been fortunate to have a mentor in my life who had a natural ability to connect with people. He told me that all people have far more in common than we do differences. He said anytime you meet someone, ask them where they are from, and from that find a way to connect with them around the topic of that place. What you know about it. If you’ve been there, what did you like. Places you saw, or restaurants, or people you met. It’s all about finding a way to connect with that person based on shared experiences.
Unfortunately, in today’s environment we’ve been conditioned to focus not on what we have in common, but on what divides us. We could all take a lesson from this 84 year old man’s sage advice to me many years ago. I called him today to let him know how much I appreciate him and his wise council to me over the years.
I’ve been fortunate to have a mentor in my life who had a natural ability to connect with people. He told me that all people have far more in common than we do differences. He said anytime you meet someone, ask them where they are from, and from that find a way to connect with them around the topic of that place. What you know about it. If you’ve been there, what did you like. Places you saw, or restaurants, or people you met. It’s all about finding a way to connect with that person based on shared experiences.
Unfortunately, in today’s environment we’ve been conditioned to focus not on what we have in common, but on what divides us. We could all take a lesson from this 84 year old man’s sage advice to me many years ago. I called him today to let him know how much I appreciate him and his wise council to me over the years.