Sheltowee
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Praying for you and your family, @kirk. We're rooting for y'all.Well, while having my morning pot of coffee, I decided to see what the strangers on the internet had to say about my life. I thought I'd create an account and chime in to give an update to those of you who care, and offer some advice for those who like to speculate, which I know is part of any online forum. This will likely be my first and only post.
First, I want to say thank you to all of those who have supported us during this setback. We appreciate all of the donations and advice from those of you who have taken the time. We are competent people and are exploring all of our options in terms of jobs and insurance, among many other things. The original post didn't include job leads because we don't intend to move (after about a dozen moves all over the country, we're over it) and we have either worked for or with all of the natural resource entities in our commuting area (and in about a dozen of other states), so we have connections. Also, did you know there's a thing called an email alert that will send you jobs you're interested in? Wild.
Second, I find it disheartening that folks want to talk crap and take advantage of others during a vulnerable and difficult time. My wife and I didn't ask for a donation page (actually quite embarrassed about it), didn't ask for it to be shared on here (thanks to @trb for spreading our story and @Big Fin for approving the post, they are good dudes just trying to help a brother out), and are of the mindset that we should take care of ourselves, which was our plan before dozens and dozens of people reached out offering their support and refusing to take no for an answer. We are fortunate enough to have a community that wants to share our story, support us, and understands the life burden of losing 50% of your income when you're about have a major life change. We're fully aware that this situation would be different if not for the pregnancy. Yeah, we will land on our feet and come out of this better than before, but the outpouring of support has propped us up during this difficult time. We aren't taking the donation amount lightly, and are extremely grateful for those who chose to donate their hard earned money to a random stranger. We plan to pay it forward on the other side because that's what decent humans do.
Having said all of that, I respect everyone's opinions on this and any other topic, and usually choose to ignore it. However, it was hard to stay silent in this situation. I just ask that you take your negativity elsewhere and go spend your time doing some good for your community instead of spending your time behind your screen, speculating on others' lives.
Again, thank you to those of you who have supported us, and I wish nothing for the best to those who disagree. Best of luck with your tag draws and stay safe in the coming seasons.