Datil is a decent place with mostly good people, but I would rethink bringing them. How tough is she? Does she like driving and Pie? LOLHave you ever been in that unit and do you plan on staying at the motel as well? You're gonna want a base camp in the hills or you will spend more time driving then elk hunting. Also unless you find the couple shining gems (that probably aren't near you) in the state most NM motels are not places I would leave my family and then feel warm and fuzzy.
Let's see what we can come up with. It is a beautiful place to visit,SW NM.I sent you a message already, but yes Im working on it... carefully, lol.
It sounds like the new plan is for her to try and bring a friend along and do some general New Mexico/Southwest US sightseeing with maybe a few days in the middle where they stop out and see us on the hunt.
Negative on being in the unit and unlikely regarding the hotel. I kept the reservation for the family in case they want or need it, but it has a great cancellation policy. It's got good reviews, right in town, and she probably be armed. I plan on staying near where we are hunting in a basecamp or on the mountain as much as possible. This is an elk hunting trip first and foremost but as mentioned above, what would've been a more family friendly trip in 23 is now changing abruptly... I'm working on it. By the sounds of it, she may be pivoting to bringing a friend along and touring the american southwest instead.
Inviting the family along on a trip and then subsequently, at least partially, uninviting them two days later is a delicate and dynamic situation. A little bit like defusing a landmine after you're already standing on it.